HOW TO APPROACH A WOMAN ONLINE AND GET HER EXCITED TO MEET YOU

Have you tried chatting up ladies online without any success? This is because you might be doing it the wrong way. Meeting a lady online is so different to when you meet her in real life, so don’t expect the same trick working for the two worlds. Follow this simple steps to get any ladies talking fast.

1) Don't 'wink or poke' her.

Match.com has 'winks', Facebook has 'pokes' and you shouldn't play with any of them with her! These are all ways to show interest in a person without needing to write an email, or put any effort in whatsoever. They will make you look lazy and scared and not exactly attractive traits for a man.

Guess how many of such pokes that an attractive woman can get in the course of a week, almost all of which are completely ignored. So instead of lazy and scared, send an email that is unique.

2) Don't do mass e-mailings.

We all do this a lot. We will write one great email and then mail it to a hundred different girls and see how many nibbles you get. The only problem with this theory is that it assumes your profile and your emails are good enough to hook and reel in quality women. If they were that good, then you would be getting a 70-80% response but if not, you are out.

Note, the kind of e-mails that women strongly respond to is highly personalized.

3) Find something interesting in her profile.

Before you write the email or contact her in any form, please take time and read about her. Women like it when a guy takes the time to read her profile. This shows them that you are interested in them. So scan her profile for something that interests you both and talk about it.

4) Don't act like you like her a lot and think she is so hot.

Do you ever notice how in romantic movies the guy never goes "Oh I like you so much, you're so pretty, we have so much in common etc.." when he first meets the girl? You've got to leave it unsaid, let that tension rise up and get her all interested and bothered.